Will he really marry me ?

You should not be with the guy, if he says things like that. I honestly believe that he likes you but you are not what he is used to . If you are afraid of him leaving why put yourself in that position. I love the indian culture too but i think its old world and as for a european... it would be culture shock. I dont know either one of you, but a friend of ours married a indian guy he was not the best to her. And the family was rude after they got married. So think about whats going on, if you are having dobuts why put yourself in that position it does not make sense. You are making yourself in the end position of getting hurt. I think you would rather see yourself with a person who completes you. I am italian american , my mother is from italy, get the whole european thing. But its better i think to stick with what you know ... like your roots. Cuz the indian cutlure is pretty old fashion from what i am observed with some of my indian friends.